Vincent Tyl

English 1 4th

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   Problems caused by Bullying

Who hasn’t had a bad day overshadowed with extreme emotions? The garage door doesn’t open, all four of the children have overslept, and the hot coffee spills all over the new Lexus. The first reaction might be fury, cursing, yelling at the kids.

Whether having a bad day and exploding with rage or experiencing another extreme emotion, it is important to deal with these emotions because it affects relationships and promotes even more self-control.

Have you ever been so scared that you didn’t know what to do, almost like you’re “frozen”? For example, when Tom broke his mom’s car window she asked him what happened and he paused and blamed it on his best friend. Even though he should have calmed down and told the truth. If he was able to handle extreme emotion better than he would have been able to take responsibility for his own action and not blamed it on a friend. Knowing how to deal with extreme emotion could save a friendship like this one. Emotions can make a relationship as easy as break on. Knowing how to control your extreme emotion will decide which one it is in the end.

Have you ever been driving down the road and getting so angry you want to scream? For example, I am riding on my for-wheeler on the trails at the park, then all the sudden a dirt bike came out of the trees and ran me off the road. I got off and yelled at him and told him how “dumb” he was. I should have said, “It’s okay” and go our different ways. Getting rude and angry like this can ruin a friendship and relationship in no time. Being able to have self-control over your emotions would give you the ability to handle the situation in a better way.

Therefor, dealing with extreme emotion is important because it allows you to act quickly in a panic situation and deal with your anger. Dealing with extreme emotion saves relationships. The ones who can’t deal with extreme emotion are the ones that break the relationship or friendships